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Day 26: Graduating from Kindergarten, Voting Rights, Love & Equality

Dear Readers,

M finished Kindergarten today.


Our K class parent had  the lovely idea for each child to bring in a flower to add to a bouquet for their teacher this morning, the last day of school. M picked these for her.



Also today, DOMA was declared unconstitutional by the Supreme Court. Finally. A great victory for Equality in America. These two images were circulating today. I don’t know who made them, but they say so much, I had to share.


On the other hand, Voter’s Rights were set back. I’m still reading about it and trying to digest what has happened. Read more it about here and  here.

M gave me this note  written on a tissue (not sure what’s up with him writing on paper towel and tissues lately, but there you have it. Just  another mystery.


This is really worth a watch. Karen Lewis, Chicago Teacher’s Union, president, speaks the truth.


Congratulations, M! You did it! Hooray! So proud.


Love and peace,


Day 25: The Day Before the Last Day of School

Dear Readers,

Winding down the school year here. Last night M told me he wants to stay in his class forever. Today he said, “Yay, no more Kindergarten!”

At the start of the year, I remember filling out a form for school.  What are your expectations for Kindergarten? What do you want  your child to learn?  Or something like that. I’d written a few things, one of them was for M to make new friends. He certainly did that— making many new friends and continuing to learn how to  get along with more people, solve conflicts, tolerate frustrations, share attention, stand up for himself, apologize, work things out, etc.

I heard that in first grade there’s only one recess per day. That makes me sad. They’ll only go outside only once a day? It doesn’t seem like enough. I don’t know if this is a new policy or an old one. I guess we’ll find out about that in the fall. I also heard that his Kindergarten classes  got two breaks a day because of the efforts of teachers who fought hard for that.  I wonder   who will be fighting for what come September. So much is going on here. It’s going to be an interesting summer. I do plan on some down time,  M will be going to camp, and I’ve got a few projects I’m working on. I have a stack of books I want to read. If I get to one or two I’ll be happy.

Today I received a list of supplies M will need the first day of school (#2 pencils, erasers, glue sticks, etc.) He’s pretty excited about going back to his school for first grade. This time, he’ll know the bus routine,   friends and teachers,  the school. All of those were big unknowns ten months ago, now  its old hat.

Tomorrow is the last day of school. We’re going to celebrate his achievement of graduating from Kindergarten with family time. I asked M to make a list of what he wanted to do for the few days we’re off together. I told him, we might not be able to do everything, but we’ll try to do as much of it as we can. He returned with a written note (yellow highlighter on a paper towel so it was almost impossible to read), that listed games he likes to play at home. Every single one was an imagination playing game he has in rotation. All that he made up. All that call for the following: improvisation, laughing, make-believe, magic, suspension of reality, reality, stuffed animals, cars, dinosaurs, trucks, trains, underwater creatures, water, dandelions, sticks, rocks, mud, blankets, pillows, couch cushions, our shoes, our clothes, hats, bags, notebooks, paper, pens….

I can’t believe M’s done with Kindergarten. It goes by in a flash.

copyright Elana Halberstadt June 2013, 11″x14″ acrylic on canvas

I made this painting for M’s teacher, assistant, and student teacher (as part of our class gift from parents and caregivers).

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Good night and good morning.


Day 20: A Day at the Zoo

Dear Readers,

I joined my son’s class at their year-end  field trip to the local zoo. It was a beautiful, sunny day and everyone was in good spirits. I was so happy to take a break from the revolution to spend time with M and his classmates,  parents,  and teachers.


After every experience with Ms class, I’m always left asking,  how do teachers do what they do every single day? I bow down at their feet in gratitude. Really. They’re amazing.

Today offered a beautiful reminder and I felt deep appreciation for hands-on learning, exploring, adventure, team work, cooperation, kindness, generosity, empathy, caring, humor, and love.  I’m especially thankful for the new friends I’ve made via Ms class this year.

On several occasions, when M got melty (hey, his mom was there so of course that would happen), his friends (and teachers) stepped in to help. It was incredible to see how they all look out for each other.

Plus, we rode the train.


And we met this guy, a red panda who I’ve fallen in love with.




Also thinking about James Gandolfini, being scared, and things that help.

Thanks, Sesame Street and Mr. Gandolfini, for helping us cope with big feelings.

Love and Peace and Hugs,


Day 9: Kindergarten should be fun

Dear Readers,

I made this today:


And then I found this bit of wonderful from Lookatmyhappyrainbow.com:


My hands are better but still resting them. My brain is going in a 1000 directions. My floor is covered with piles of documents, notes, and emails. My walls are covered in notes, quotes, and Ms drawings. He’s in Kindergarten. Here’s a recent one:

Cat chasing mouse with ants, by M.
“Cat chasing mouse with ants”

I beg forgiveness if I’m slow to respond or to check out my fellow blogger’s sites. I appreciate your messages and support. When this is all over, I hope to visit the many bloggers who’ve  been so kind here.

Good night and sweet dreams. 


Packing school lunches: Making a difference one Snackaby bag at a time

Dear Readers,

So, by now you know that I don’t usually post about products, but every once in a while when something grabs me, I’m compelled to share it.

I found out about a reuseable snack bag from a mom of one of Max’s classmates at his former preschool. She and I had struck up a conversation at the end of the year pool party, and she told me about her company, Snackaby . I thought, that is totally cool. I told her I’d love to learn more about it and she sent me info.

Over the summer (while packing Max lunch and two snacks per day for camp), I noticed how many of those plastic sandwich and snack bags I was using. I don’t have a scientific count, but it was an awful lot! I realized almost everything else I used for his lunches was reusable. The lunch box, water bottle, snack containers, even utensils. But, that little plastic baggie was still very much in play. Sometimes you want or need less bulk, which a bag gives you, as opposed to containers, which are  bulkier and heavier.  This line of thinking is precisely what had led Jennifer  Larsen and a partner  to create Snackaby. I admired her entrepreneurial spirit; she had an IDEA and had actually followed through and CREATED something from it.

Time passed. My back to school frenzy manifested (among other things) as fretting over these concerns:

1. How would we wake up on time to catch the school bus?

2.  What  will I pack for lunch for Kindergarten?

We resolved the first concern by moving bedtime to earlier. That’s a nightly exercise in handling Max’s increasingly elaborate and sophisticated dilly-dallying techniques with our best counter-delay tactics that often fall short. So far, we’ve managed to catch the bus. As to the second, well, it’s a work-in-progress.

I’m a proud master at the fine art of bagel slicing and  spreading it with creme cheese so there’s just enough, but not too much. The world might stop spinning if creme cheese leaked through the hole in the middle,  rendering it, in Max’s words: “Icky!” I include fruit and /or a vegetable in every lunch (mini carrots, grapes, cucumber slices). Max has been choosing to bring water in his water bottle instead of  juice boxes or bags, “Because it’s healthy, Mommy.” He surprises me with these self-aware moments. While he hasn’t stopped drinking juice all together, he definitely drinks less, and less sugar is good for him.

I know some folks make elaborate lunches with fancy decorations and such. Let’s just say, that while I try to keep things fun for Max, there’s only so much time I can dedicate to packing his lunch and I’m not that crafty in the morning. I’m  also not a fan of buying disposable doodads and knickknacks just to make his lunch look more appealing. Regular toothpicks do the trick  for “cucumber wheels.” You want a face shape in a sandwich? Fine, that’ll be raisins. Yes, I occasionally break out the cookie cutters to make shaped sandwiches. I’ve got a Halloween set which includes a cat, pumpkin, ghost, and moon shapes. Goodness knows, I don’t bake cookies with them. I draw the line of creative and amazing looking lunches right there.

I need lunches to be easy, fast,  and as healthy as possible within the limits of what Max considers edible on any given day. Especially when there’s about five things he’ll eat and most of them involve cheese, cheesy snacks, or things that look, taste, or behave like cheese. Dairy is a food group. In our house, so is pizza.  I do my best.

Hey, I’m heartened by the fact that Max will periodically go to our arugula plant in the garden and pick off a leaf or two to eat raw. Apparently, Max likes zucchini, too, (cut in strips, light stir fry in soy sauce), but only during a full moon.  Food at other people’s homes is always “delicious.”  The snacks his teacher offers are infinitely better than mine. How pretzels, Graham Crackers, Saltines and such are SO MUCH tastier THERE than when packed HERE at HOME, by little old me? Hello, and welcome to the mind of an almost six-year old. One must accept these things as fact, don’t ask why, and please keep moving confidently in the direction of your dream. Mine being, that Max will eat enough lunch to keep him going until he gets home in the afternoon.

I asked Max what he’d like for the first day of school. Seems he wanted the exact same foods he was used to having. Fine with me. Getting used to Kindergarten was more than enough. Bring on the bagels and mini pita bread! Cheese sticks. Goldfish. Pretzels. Pears. Grapes. And glorious apples, which he now likes whole or sliced, so it feels like the apple has expanded into more options. But, anyway, there I was, still using LOTS of plastic sandwich bags. I know that our planet is in a bad way, and that anything we can each do to help by reusing, recycling, reducing—is good.

It was high time to give Snackaby a try. Max chose the super cool, colorful cat design.

Photo by Snackaby

Being a big fan of cats, color, and things that are easy to open and close (Velcro)  he loved it instantly. I explained to him that even though I might still need to use plastic bags sometimes, that we were going to attempt to use LESS of them. He got it right away. He’s also usually the one around here who reminds us to turn off the lights we’re not using,”Save energy, Mommy!”

These bags are pretty clever! I immediately wanted one for me. Perfect for carrying an assortment of things that otherwise are loose bits that are impossible to wrangle at the  bottom of my bag. Every once in a while, I dump it out and am amazed at my findings. Everything is coated with crumbs and other unidentifiable sticky goo. Also, there are usually several rocks. And twigs. Now that we’re getting into leaf season, we’ll have the crumbled leaves, too. I love that Max explores and collects these pieces of nature that we find on our urban / suburban streets. And the Snackaby bags keep food, snacks, and even Max’s toy cars, safely inside the bags with a neat, tight velcro and flap closure. Unlike the plastic bags, which often split open, resulting in that mystery mush pile in the depths of my bag. Oh, I love an environmentally sound solution that also makes less mess in my little world. The planet and my bag—both improved! YES!

I hardly ever wear makeup anymore, but if I did, this bag would be perfect for it.  I could see these being great to hold cell phones, eyeglasses, money, or keys for a day at the beach (to keep sand and water out). Even medicine or a small first aid kit. Yes, all kinds of uses for this nifty snack bag  that also happens to be super cute and takes up very little real estate in the vortex of what some might call a handbag but I just call too heavy. Could be the rocks.

Cleaning a Snackaby is super easy.  The inside comes out easily and is top shelf dishwasher-safe. Or you can wipe it out with a wet sponge or cloth, rinse, and let air dry. The bags are environmentally friendly and made from food safe materials inside; DEHP, Phthalate and BPA plasticizers – FREE! The exterior is a high quality laminated cotton. The reuseable factor alone makes them an obvious green choice.

Every little bit helps. Yes, sometimes I still need and use those clear plastic bags, but now that we’ve got the Snackabies, we’re already saving a lot of plastic bags. Plus, getting the word out to support a friend, fellow mom, local woman business owner, with a Made in the USA product — seems like  a really great deal to me.

You can check out Snackaby here.

Have a great week!


PS. Read about possible harmful back to school supplies in this post by the folks who brought us BagIt. It’s a great blog!

All words and images copyright Elana A. Halberstadt 2012 except where noted otherwise.